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Kelli Joan Bennett's avatar

I love the true story about the group of boys stranded on a deserted island! We need the book and movie about THAT version of what real children are capable of…in a good, positive, uplifting way. Amazing. ❤️🙏🏻

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I ran a Pop-Up Adventure Playground in Albany, New York monthly for three summers before closing it in 2020. No curriculum, no adult-led activities, just open space and loose parts: cardboard boxes, rope, paint, tires, scrap wood.

About 750 people came through over those three years. Some families drove two hours each way.

The moment I remember most clearly: an ice cream truck pulled up playing that song. The one designed to pull every child’s attention away from whatever they’re doing.

Not a single child looked up.

The truck waited. Nothing happened. Eventually it drove away.

The kids were so deeply engaged in what they had chosen that one of the strongest external pulls in childhood couldn’t even break their focus.

That’s what always felt off to me about Lord of the Flies. The assumption that chaos is the natural state unless adults impose order. What I kept seeing instead was that when children are given real freedom, something surprisingly coherent often emerges on its own.

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