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Peter Kindfield, PhD's avatar

Hey Peter, Great piece. I am generally a playful person. I have noticed for a while when working with kids, that the more I relax the better the quality of our time and learning together becomes. Looking back, I notice that the above description is missing a step. When I relax I become more playful. I agree with you that kids learn better when they are playing, being playful, and being communicated with in a playful way. And, it's not just that learning increases. A few days ago I volunteered to help with a field trip of public school kids to our local nature center. My manner with kids is generally relaxed and playful. I set and hold boundaries but in relaxed and playful ways. I noticed the kids listened to me more than the folks being stern with the kids.

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Beth Hankoff's avatar

It’s always nice to see research that supports what you do. I think stress reduction plays into this as well - perhaps as a first step toward a playful mindset? There are several things I do in my homeschool writing classes that I think help reduce stress and prepare the mind to enter play. First, participation is always optional. Next, I try very hard to keep things lighthearted. I emphasize that we are learning and practicing, not trying to produce something perfect. The class begins with free journaling. That can mean drawing, listing, brainstorming, or whatever. The lesson I give is taught with a story or a funny example. I often make up a crazy story on the spot, or start one and let the class continue it together. Toward the end of the class, I make word games available and everyone plays together, or we play a theater game of some kind. The result has been that several kids who “hated” writing have come to love it. Students with a history of “behavior problems” had no such problems in my class. I absolutely believe that taking the pressure off and creating a playful atmosphere helps with their creativity and increases their learning.

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