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Denise Champney's avatar

Dr. Gray, I appreciate your expertise and perspective on this topic! I think, as with most topics, that this is a very nuanced and complex topic. I started my career in the late 90’s as an SLP working with young children. At the time, I felt myself advocating for more free play and feeling frustrated by the academic demands that were not developmentally appropriate being forced on young kids. I then moved to working with middle school and high school students in the mid 2000’s. The introduction of social media definitely had an impact on the social world within schools.

But something else was also happening at that time. Schools were moving away from traditional teaching methods to ones that were more computer based. Since the start of the pandemic, this shift has escalated and most curriculums used in schools today are primarily digitally based. For the most part, kids spend the majority of their days in school. I agree with your previous letter (D8) which discusses your thoughts on the multiple causes for the negative mental health trend in youth. I think social media has played a large role but also the changes to education and the significant increase in screen time during the school day is also a big contributor. I encourage all your readers to check out your Letgrow.org website along with everyschool.org if they want to help advocate to make a change!

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Excellent post, Peter. My anecdotal experiences with numerous young people who presented with anxiety, depression, or suicidal attempts or ideation showed that they did indeed spend inordinate amounts of time on social media, and it would be easy to blame the social media usage for their mental health struggles. But I found that social media use for these young people was more of an escape from trauma, or their attempts to navigate beyond the constraints of what they feel is the unfree and unjust world that they live in. As far as causal relationships it seemed that mental health struggles led to an increased attachment to social media, not the other way around. But an outsider would see the correlation and just assume that the relationship went the other way.

To be fair, I think that social media presents more of a problem to most young people (and adults) than benefits. I think that it does a fabulous job (commercially) capturing the attention of people, enabling a mindset that encourages people to constantly measure themselves against others, and hardwires a perceived need for external validation through dopamine hits. But to blame social media and dismiss concerns about a lack of social connection because young people's time and freedom of movement is tightly regulated, or the constant pressure of performing for adults academically and athletically with the threat of a life of poverty hanging over their head, or an inability to imagine that they are able to make meaningful life decisions for themselves to shape their own future seems to me to be a desire to identify a boogie man. As you suggested, it is a lot easier to name a boogie man (e.g., violent video games, rock music, drugs) than to address the social conditions of society.

BTW, I found a substack of someone who has a couple of really nice posts questioning this narrative around phones and social media, as well. https://shoresofacademia.substack.com/

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