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Marge Simpson's avatar

I have two early elementary aged children. The amount that adults around them talk to them about anxiety is alarming. Everyone is constantly talking about their kids fears and worries. It's collective rumination on a massive scale. The adults kids look to to model confidence and leadership are walking around talking about anxiety and mental health 24 hours a day. On my sons first day of Kindergarten he came home with a drawing he had done during an SEL lesson that asked them to draw one of their fears. It was a picture of him laying in bed in his dark room. Welcome to school, tell us what scares you so we can talk about it. How absurd. Look at the current popular kids movie in theaters right now. Inside Out 2. It is a movie about anxiety. SEL doesn't work because all the skills it is trying to teach are naturally learned through experiences children are denied at school and at home. And even worse, when children do see the natural consequences of behavior they are told to ignore what they see and understand to be true and given a clearly wrong alternate explanation or set of rules to respond with. Kindness and inclusion are weaponized.

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19peaks's avatar

While in a different setting, I realized a lot of my own anxiety and depression as a 911 Dispatcher came from being told I should feel traumatized. A group of colleagues would send out monthly newsletters giving ideas on how to be more resilient. They also put up pop-psychology posters in the bathrooms about staving off the effects of trauma. The effect? I started to think of myself as broken and vulnerable. Meanwhile, many of the “old guard” who had done the work for 30 years told me they were just fine.

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