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Cyrilla Rowsell's avatar

Peter, your words make my heart sing.

When I started teacher training, in 1974, I was an extremely green, naive, unconfident person with no sense of self and an abiding conviction that I was 'not good at anything.'

Reading John Holt's 'Why Children Fail' in my first week at college had such a profound effect (my personal school career had been an almost total disaster) - and the other thing that really got to me was this word that was bandied around the whole time - 'work'.

'Work', to me, was something unpleasant and distasteful - and here I was, learning how to make 'work' for children. It made me deeply unhappy and I think this was where (unconsciously at the time) I started to feel that children should be allowed to do things they liked doing - the seeds of my current life tenet, which is to LET PEOPLE BE.

What you say here is just so, so good. I have felt more and more in recent years that society needs a complete shake-up - we need to stop accepting certain things as norms, and start to LIVE in a more happy and fulfilled way.

If I ever DO start my 'Happiness Revolution', your words will form a very large part of it.

Thank you so very much.

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ishen's avatar

I highly recommend the Ruth Cowan’s book More Work for Mother published in 1983. It clearly shows that technological innovation simply raises the bar on the amount of work mothers are expected to do. The advance of washing machines and dishwashers simply did not reduce the amount of housework for women. I personally think it is an underrated masterpiece.

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