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Beth Hankoff's avatar

Peter, the DSM might call your condition Pathological Fishing Disorder. 😉

It feels like there has been a trend toward naming many childhood behaviors as pathologies in the last 20 years or more. My son is autistic, but did not get a diagnosis until age ten, when his social skills and other characteristics were more noticeably different from his age peers. He is highly intelligent, which led people to believe he could not be autistic. Schools were cruel to him before and after diagnosis. As a teen he had mental health issues, was suicidal, and violent outbursts. I kept telling people that he was experiencing trauma from school, but of course I was rebuffed. Meanwhile, he saw different psychologists and psychiatrists at his many hospitalizations. It was suggested that he had:

Videogame addiction

Bipolar Disorder

Intermittent Explosive Disorder

And, was misdiagnosed as autistic and was actually highly gifted (actually he's both!)

He was on three medications and not improving. I stopped making him go to school. He dropped out. After some adjustment time, he wanted to take the GED. He passed easily. As an adult, he asked his doctors to let him titrate down on the meds. The refused, so he did it cold turkey.

Fast-forward to today. He is 25, lives independently, and has worked hard to learn all the adulting things. His mental health has vastly improved with NO MEDS and NO COUNSELING. Violence and suicide are not in the picture at all. He’s applying for work while studying college-type subjects independently. Somehow, dropping out of school cured him of all those disorders.

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Ryan Groff's avatar

A very impressive argument sir. My first game as a child almost 40 years ago was Zelda. Now, I have recently bought my child a Nintendo switch and we play the new version together. There are conversations in the villages and I make her practice reading them out loud with amazement at some rather large words she pronounces with ease. There are puzzle trials along the way, more then once (i wont admit to more, lol) she was instrumental in solving them. There are maps and compasses to follow that require geography and topography knowledge and the graphics are breathtaking. She normally just hands me the paddle when monsters become difficult and require some additional hand eye coordination (but what else are Dads for?) She is learning to follow event storylines and investigate worlds and characters that challenge her senses. However, with all the benefits I witness the back of my mind crawls with angst of addiction. I realize now, thats the word my father used when he wanted me off video games and wanted me outside playing football with the kids. Dont get me wrong. It was an activity I enjoyed as well but video gaming never led to pulled hamstrings and disjointed muscle attachments. Now that I think about it. My father was giving me a choice between physical violence and logically working my mind.

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