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Sarah Thompson's avatar

I have two teens who have had unfettered access to computer technology most of their lives (I fought it when my elder was little but I healed that fear and need to control in myself and the issue resolved.)

And they have several friends who are from similar situations. Now that some of them are young adults, I can confirm that *the tech is not the problem.* The family and community environment drives so much of the dynamic.

All the effort that was needed was *within me.* Once I did that, it all flowed.

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DrK mentioned that any video gamer who is able to beat Dark Souls by definition does not have a problem with motivation. Its only that their motivation doesn't correspond to what you think it should.

I also want to point out that we often use the phrase "the real world" referring to life outside of school. My question is, if the life inside of school is implied to be fake, and correctly so, then why is it so much better than the world of Super Mario??

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